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Knowing deep

It 's been a long time since I last wrote on this blog. Several things have changed in my life, and long I have not read the Bible. I would like to start over, at least a little 'while.

Reading today that struck me more 'and' was the Psalm (Ps. 138).

Lord, you search me and know me,
you know when I sit and when I get up.
my thoughts from afar,
examine me when I walk and when to rest.
We are known all my ways.

For you created my inmost
you knit me together in my mother's womb.
I praise you because I have a wonderfully made;
wonderful are your works.

You know me at the bottom.
you were not hidden
my bones when I was being made in secret, intricately wrought in the depths of the earth
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The psalmist wants to say to God that he feels he is known by him to every detail in depth. God has created, miraculously, and knew him even before he had self-awareness'.
E 'a sentiment that runs counter to the common experience we all have on this earth do not even know ourselves so' deeply, let alone another person. Anyone think we know, in reality ', escapes us. Never take anything for granted. Exactly, not even ourselves .. It 'nice to think that there is' Someone who really knows who we are instead, what want, with what and for what we are fighting.

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Internet addiction

Social communication today is facilitated by the Internet, a tool that allows you to cross the barriers of time and space. The people of "surfers" has grown enormously and now includes all ages. Through the internet you can play, we inform you study, notice, sells, buys, one works, one experiences in virtual reality. But all this facility has not been free from misuses and abuse so that, in recent years (1995, Goldberg), has begun to highlight a new form of dependency in the mental health field, called Internet addiction, Internet Addiction Disorder (IAD).

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Those at risk are aged between 15 and 40 years, have a good knowledge of computer science, are often isolated for the purpose of work (eg night shift work) or wide area and usually have psychological problems, psychiatric or family background to the Net-dependence (between these problems stand loneliness, dissatisfaction in marriage, work-related stress, depression, financial problems, insecurity due to the physical, anxiety, struggle to quit other addictions, limited social life, etc ...)


Symptoms Common symptoms: anxiety, insomnia, depression, abnormal sleep patterns, distortion of time, altered perception of oneself, personality disorders, impaired relationships and contact with reality, affective and work, loss of ability to limit time spent on the Net, to the detriment of any other commitment.

The 3 stages on the way to the most stable form of addiction from the Web

1. Initial phase : warning obsessive themes and instruments relating to the use of the network that generates repeated behaviors such as checking e-mail in the same day, research programs and frequent communication tools specific, prolonged chat.

2. Phase tossicofila : increased time spent on-line (often during working hours and at night), with a growing sense of malaise, agitation, lack or low level of activity when it is disconnected (a condition compared to abstinence).

3. Addiction : network-dependent wide-ranging affects the functioning of the person in different areas of life (work, social, emotional, educational). We distinguish between:


The Net, by virtue of its enormous resources (eg. Undo the problems of distance or time, offer the possibility of changing identity and personality through the testing of virtual reality, suspend the consequences and responsibilities of their actions) may induce feelings of omnipotence deleterious .
The constant feature that forms the backdrop to every Internet addiction is the network's ability to respond (or respond to deceive) in many human needs (communication, membership, knowledge, testing of parts of themselves otherwise unacceptable suspension of responsibility ..), allowing you to experience intense feelings and emotions, feeling, at the same time, protected.
For the young age of development and some predisposed individuals, the abuse of the network can create confusion in the distinction between real and virtual, what is part of the real self and what you can experience only virtually . And the abuse of interaction and experimentation in the virtual self can then be accompanied by a deficit or deformation of the normal development of emotional and social skills.

The prevention remains a useful tool for everyone, with special attention some rules in using the Internet by those already involved in psychological distress:
- to limit the amount of time spent online each day (not more than one or two hours), preferably not by establishing a daily habit that must be respected at all costs
- integrating online activities with such real assets (eg shopping, leisure or social relations), as this does not turn the network into a privileged instrument to relax, escape and contact us if
themselves - the real socialization should never be totally replaced by virtual
- if you feel a compulsive and uncontrollable need to connect to the Internet, you seek expert help.


MORE LITERATURE
· AA.VV., 1998, the virtual reality, Laterza, Bari
· Cantelmi T. et al., 2000, The Internet in mind. Psychopathology of the conduct on-line, Padova, Piccin.
· Oliviero A. Ferraris, G. Malavasi, 2001, The Mask of desires. In Contemporary Psychology, 166, 30-37.
· Praveen G., A. Beria, Guberti S., 2004, Internet: needs, fears and opportunities. In Contemporary Psychology, 182, 58-64.
· Praveen G., 2002, Web psychology Guerini, Milan.

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My idea of \u200b\u200ba therapeutic relationship

If you are a customer and I am your therapist:

Method contractual

We take joint responsibility to achieve a common goal: your well-being and your autonomy. Both participate in the process of change. We both tasks. That's why we enter into a contract: an assumption of responsibility on the part of both.

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Value equal

The term "customer" instead of the "patient" emphasizes the concept of equal value and responsibility. There is no 'then a person "impotent and lower" than in a totally passive to an expert relies "powerful / superior." There are two people (therapist and client) that are of equal value along a path of growth.

Open communication

During our work together you have all the necessary information on the processes at work. I will use non-technical language so that you can understand exactly what we're doing. I will teach you the concepts and tools of Transactional so that you can use them.

Authenticity and unconditional positive regard, empathy

As a therapist I do not hide behind a professional facade, will express thoughts and feelings in an informal and frank , providing a model of what can be putting you in touch with your feelings, expressing them, and are responsible. My position towards you will be based on a profound respect for what you are, for your commitment in an effort to grow and improve, even when not approve your behavior. I will hear you, moment by moment, to understand the feelings from your personal point of view of phenomenology, is that of which you are well aware, from both perspectives that you may still be only dimly aware.

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Awareness

E 'need to focus not on events experienced, but on how they experienced (on personal meanings), because the phenomenological world of every person is the primary determinant of its behavior and that is what makes it unique. As a therapist I have the task of facilitating the growth process of restoring your self-awareness of thoughts, emotions, needs, actions, capabilities and responsibilities.

Responsibility

If you are my client will be responsible for your change, which can be implemented not only when you are in therapy but also outside it, in case of problems in the future. As a therapist I try to manipulate events on your own, rather than have to create conditions that facilitate autonomous decision making on your part. Though acting on your behalf, the process of growth and self-it would only be hindered. Any short-term relief tied to outside intervention, would interfere with the growth long-term, as you would keep in a devalued role and image, dependent and passive. Reclaiming a sense of responsibility, awareness of your resources, testing the effectiveness of your progress will be the building blocks with which you can build autonomy and well-being.